It’s a tricky thing, this mom business. There is so much advice on the subject, too.
Ten Ways to Raise the Perfect Child
3 Things Not to Do to Destroy Your Child
Being a Mom is the Best Job in the World
5 Things You Must Say Every Day to Raise Healthy Children
It goes on and on and on and clutters my facebook feed. When did parenting become about the “dos and the don’ts?” When did it become so complicated?
My generally parenting philosophy is this: If I’m not doing something wrong, then I’m not doing anything right.
In order for me to be involved and alive in my kid’s lives, I need to be human. They need to see me have a melt down and then (hopefully) come back around. They need to see that when I lose my temper, I still love them – even if it takes a few beers or a few hours to get to that point. Fact is, I fail my kids. Every day I fail them because I’m flawed and there is no way that saying 5 magical words is going to fix human nature.